Its an inevitability of life that people change, friendships change, we drift and grow. Blaming others for this inevitability and the limitations of our own being to prevent change is childish, it is unenlightened, it is the practice of the weak and petty. It upsets me to see that you have fallen this way, i thought you were stronger than this. All this time you made me believe it was you holding my head above water but I was doing that all by myself, in fact you were keeping me from learning to swim. Your expectations were the weight on my ankles, you needed me to be weak so you could feel strong, you could be needed.
And now I am free. In missing you today I had forgotten that, now I am free.